Hello #

We are Aspec*German, a Discord oasis for people on the asexual, aromantic and/or aplatonic spectrums. People who are just questioning their identity on these spectrums and those who feel connected to us as Allies are of course also welcome.

On our server we offer the possibility to exchange and find/share resources about these topics among others as well as gender, memes, relationships and more.
Every two weeks we organize meetings that take place in the language chats.
Regional groups also have their place here and hold their meetings with us.

How does one become part of the Aspec*German server? It’s very simple:

  1. Either download Discord for your operating system or use it via your browser
  2. create an account (if you don’t already have one)
  3. then join our oasis using the following invitation code in Discord : HnkcTgX

We are always happy to welcome new people!

Just one note though: almost all of our content is in german, but we sometimes take part or organize international events. For these purposes we will create international/english speaking channels.

Events on the server for the current and the next month #

The complete overview is available in #termine-und-infos .

  • 2026-10-07, 17:00: Community-Treffen im Kaminzimmer
  • 2026-10-07, 17:30: Serverorga-Treffen (im Café)
  • 2026-10-13, 17:30: AktivistA-Sitzung (Senfcall)
  • 2026-10-15, 17:00: Teamtreffen (öffentlich im Café)
  • 2026-10-21, 17:30: Serverorga-Treffen (im Café)
  • 2026-10-25, 15:00: Auftakt AceWeek 2026
  • 2026-10-25, 16:00: Ace-Quiz
  • 2026-10-25, 17:00: Fragerunde mit einem erfahrenen Mitglied der Ace*spec-Community
  • 2026-10-25, 19:00: Sex haben/mögen als asexuelle Person (ü18)
  • 2026-10-26, 17:00: Aktivismusaustausch
  • 2026-10-27, 15:00: Asexualität und Kink (18+)
  • 2026-10-27, 17:00: Kreativ Austausch
  • 2026-10-27, 19:00: Ace-Repräsentation in Doctor Who
  • 2026-10-28, 17:00: Austausch über offline Aspec Treffen
  • 2026-10-28, 19:00: Einführung in das ace-Spec und Demisexualität
  • 2026-10-29, 17:00: Einführung in 4-Panel-Comics und Workshop
  • 2026-10-29, 19:00: Ace*spec und Zukunftsvorstellungen
  • 2026-10-30, 19:00: Wie finden ASpec-Charaktere in phantastische Geschichten?
  • 2026-10-31, 12:00: Nonpartnering Aces
  • 2026-10-31, 12:00: Partnering Aces
  • 2026-10-31, 13:00: Neurodivergente Aces
  • 2026-10-31, 13:00: Sex-favourable Aces
  • 2026-10-31, 14:00: Grey/demi Aces
  • 2026-10-31, 14:00: Trans* Aces
  • 2026-10-31, 15:00: M-spec Aces
  • 2026-10-31, 15:00: Aces mit Behinderung und chronisch kranke Aces
  • 2026-10-31, 16:00: Ältere Aces
  • 2026-10-31, 16:00: Asensuelle Aces
  • 2026-11-04, 19:30: Serverorga-Treffen (im Café)
  • 2026-11-10, 19:30: AktivistA-Sitzung (Senfcall)
  • 2026-11-15, 01:30: Teamtreffen (öffentlich im Café)
  • 2026-11-20, 11:00: Umfragen Reminder
  • 2026-11-29, 18:00: “Buchclub: Fräulein Renée (im Kaminzimmer)”